My sister was a troubled child. Stealing, lying, sneaking out, failing in school, fights. When she was 18, she ran away to her "mom" and "dad," which is my mom's aunt and uncle. Long story. What I can say about those two people, they are rich stuck up lawyers.
My sister prefers money over love. That's what I see. She goes lying to everyone about everything just to give her the attention. More like poor me syndrome or sympathy. She goes on about how bad Mom was after Mom passed away. That made me really angry, because she disrespected our dead mother. Am I supposed to be ok with that? No
She blamed me for Mom's death. She tried to make me homeless. She hit Mom when I was 9 or 10. Am I supposed to be ok with that? No.
She told everyone we were poor and how we didn't have much food. I showed my dad this and he said that was a lie. My mom used to cook all the time and my dad's income was too high. What does that tell you? Hmm.
Again, people think my sister is an angel and they see there is nothing wrong with her. They go "aww, it's okay, poor her".
You don't want to know what I'm thinking because I'm sure you already know what I'm thinking when I see people go "aww" to her.
Plus, I kicked my sister out of my life, because of a post for everyone to see, it says she was talking bad about Mom and that was the last straw for me. I'm not okay with that, period.
One more thing, people are telling me I should be friends with my sister. They have no clue what my sister did and they expect me to be friends with her. NO WAY!!!!
They don't know my sister like I do. There are 2 sides to this story, you know. It's sad, really.
I don't know what to do about this.
A week and a half in treatment and this morning I'm telling myself it's a dream. I'm here with my kiddo telling myself that over and over again just to be present. That's a dream. All of it. The need for treatment and the things we are processing or not processing. Things just linger in the air and I feel like I need it to rain just so everything will settle.