My husband is a wonderful father and I wouldn't consider not having him involved daily with his boys. But he is clueless to my needs. Housework gets done magically in my home! There is no appreciation or help from him.He is never wrong, even if he starts the conflict, it is always my fault. He is a good man , but I feel so tired at the end of the day. I am tired of the arguments an my nagging.Last year he traveled to China for 2 months. I was super busy with the children and my job, very hard to do it alone. When he returned I was so glad !!!!! but there was not even a thank you from him. So I stopped talking. My birthday came and went without even a word. This year it started last week. I made breakfast for the boys, cleaned the kitchen, made dessert for dinner and started dinner while he was on the phone with his family. He then told me I don't do anything!!! So I stopped talking again. No apologies just ignore me.Today is my BDAY no words again. I don't think he will ever change. Any thoughts????????
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