I posted "Need Advice" on Jan 29th, got alot of good responses (thanks to everyone who posted)! My husband and I have had problems for sometime, but we have 3 kids (2 which are his) I am so confused right now, I don't feel I am "in" love with him anymore, but I do still love him (is this even possible)? He is gone to Costa Rica with family right now and I do miss him, but not like I thought I would, the kids and i are doing just fine without him! My biggest problems are 1) I am a stay at home mom, so without a job how do I plan to support myself and my kids without his income & with the economy the way it is getting a job is impossible! 2) My youngest daughter ask for him anytime he isn't home, she is 4 and is most definitely a "daddy's girl" All of my family lives in Florida and I in Georgia! So what to do, I don't want to destroy my kids, but I don't want them growing up thinking its okay to be unhappy and deal with it because you have kids (My mom did it and she still has unhappy times with my dad) I don't know what to do, any suggestions??
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