My sons father has got incontact with my sister through her daughters memorial site. He had typed my name into google and the website came up so he e-mailed her but he never asked about me or my son he just said he was sorry for her loss. I know this is just the start as this is what has gone on for the past 11 years. He hasn't seen or spoke to my son for 2 years this time and the time before that it was a few months and the time before that 4 years and the time before that a few months and so on and so on. It really messes with my sons head as his dad will just disappear as quickly as he appeared with no explanation. Its just what he does and my son health has suffered as a result. We have just gotten over the worst of my sons problems although they do still reaccure at birthdays and christmas as those are the times when he mostly thinks about his dad as he wonders if he will get a card or a gift. This is normally the times when he will resurface. I cannot let him back into my sons life again. Not this time. My partner whom my son calls dad thinks that if his real dad goes through a solicitor this time then we should give him visitation but i don't agree. Besides i doubt very much he would follow it through and that is my partners reasoning for allowing him to have contact. He says that if he goes to the trouble of going to court this time then maybe he has changed and we should give him an other chance. I don't think so but i feel so guilty. I know my sons real father loves him very much but i don;t think he is a good person to have in his life. Am i doing the right thing??????
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