Okay here is my story in a nutshell and I want to know if I am in the wrong or wanting to much. My finance and I have been together for 4 years now, we have 1 daughter and I have a daughter from a previous relationship. He works nights until 10 pm and I work days so we RARELY see each other. There is no "touchy feely" part in our relationship, and I can feel him sigh when I ask for a hug or a kiss. We dont do family things together, its me and the girls all the time. We have talked about seperating because he seems to never want to be at home with us. He wants to be with his friends (he is 38) so we decided that Sunday was our family day. Well he will stay on the computer and play games on Sunday because he is "home" as I requested. We dont have to much in common, he dont like anything I do, and I dont really enjoy all taht much that he does but I still go because I want to be with him. I am scared to be alone and handle everything on my own, but can anyone give me a way to express how I feel to him about wanting more passion more romance in our relationship? I just want to feel loved again, or am I the dumb one for staying in the relationship?
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