Family Issues Support Group
Family issues is a huge range that go from minor conflict to major misbehaviour and even abuse on the part of individual members of the family occur. Whether you feel you are in a dysfunctional family or you're dealing with a very specific issue, this is the place to talk about it and find others who might be going through the same thing.
Could fit this al in on the my story section...
Since Steve died I can help but think about my family. How much I hate some of them but at the same time I still love them.
My real father is an asshole, when I took my first steps my mother explained he told me to fuck off and although I was too young to remember it now apparently I witnessed him beating on my brothers. He also cheated on my mother with her sister in law, my aunty.
I am an only child but I have two brothers and a sister. My brothers are on my moms side from a previous marriage and my sister was my father's side from a previous marriage.
My father sat me down one day and told me he was moving to Sheffield. I asked when, he said two weeks, I couldnt believe him. It takes month and numerous visits to find a house, a job etc etc and he's trying to lie to me to do it in two weeks.
Every christmas the same excuse, Ive jost lost my job so we cant do much this year, so basically he wouldnt be coming to see me.
His emotional blackmail has caused so much damage in my life and although I hate him and my step mother, since Steve and Pops and all the rest of the shit, I cant get them of my mind and cant help but wonder what they think of me, do they even talk or think about me...
I dont know Im rambling. Sorry.
Since Steve died I can help but think about my family. How much I hate some of them but at the same time I still love them.
My real father is an asshole, when I took my first steps my mother explained he told me to fuck off and although I was too young to remember it now apparently I witnessed him beating on my brothers. He also cheated on my mother with her sister in law, my aunty.
I am an only child but I have two brothers and a sister. My brothers are on my moms side from a previous marriage and my sister was my father's side from a previous marriage.
My father sat me down one day and told me he was moving to Sheffield. I asked when, he said two weeks, I couldnt believe him. It takes month and numerous visits to find a house, a job etc etc and he's trying to lie to me to do it in two weeks.
Every christmas the same excuse, Ive jost lost my job so we cant do much this year, so basically he wouldnt be coming to see me.
His emotional blackmail has caused so much damage in my life and although I hate him and my step mother, since Steve and Pops and all the rest of the shit, I cant get them of my mind and cant help but wonder what they think of me, do they even talk or think about me...
I dont know Im rambling. Sorry.
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My father missed 8 birthdays, too many holidays to count and was always talking about what kind of parent I am (although he has never actually seen my parenting). I stopped talking to him for years. My dad did not see my sister for eight years and treated her the same way. Recently though he started calling, wanting to talk with me, my kids, my sister, and trying. I guess eventually they realize how important you are to them, it just takes some longer than others. I will keep you in my prayers.
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I have been here before, a long long time ago and now I am back.Forgive me for not just saying what I want to say,even under a triple dose of antidepressants it is still raw and seeping and I am hesitant at revealing it as at least under the bandages around my heart I don,t have to look at how raw and wounded.My child was cleaved from my heart by his own actions. my child of ten,turning eleven...
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
