Lets see if i can explain this where everyone can understand and i wont look like a bad parent..My son,who is 24 now,had problems when he was younger and alot of it had to do with his dad not giving him the time of day..he was argry,had adhd,wet the bed and took alot of my time away from my daughter cause he was always getting into trouble..had him into group homes,couseling,and in 1996 decided to move back close to my family so they could help me with him..When we got to the city where my family lives i had to get a place to live,get a job,and enroll my son into school..alot to do but my family didnt know how to handle my sons behavior..plus my daughter was living with my sister cause the family thought that they could catch her up since she was add,which you cant do that but help them cope..Well,one day,my son was out of control and i called my mom for help and she came over and my son was going to throw a chair at her and she didnt know what to do with him..a couple days later she told me that my brother in alska would take my son for awhile to give me a break..well i did and my son and i cried the night before him begging me not to send him that he would be good..1,000 miles away he went and i hated to do it but i was tired and didnt know what to do..well my sister-in-law didnt treat him right and after acouple of yrs i wanted my son back but my family said i couldnt handle him so he stayed.my brother had him in and out of group homes cause he couldnt handle him...now my son lives in a group home in alska..my brother moved close to the family and my son went to court to get them off his care list cause my sister-in law wouldnt give him his money when he wanted it..my son wont move close to the family cause of all the family drama,and he hangs up the phone on me when he doesnt like what i say..i feel so bad as a parent that my son went through all that and i was the one who sent him there..now i dont know when i will see my son until i get enough money to go see him..he doesnt call me,write me,or wants anything to do with the family..should i just leave him alone for awhile and let him contact me???
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