I live with my husband and son and we are very happy, but I feel because of my life with my jelouse manipulative controlling spitefull drunken mother, I have difficulties with his family.
To being with i know that she and the rest of his family never wanted us to be together I was not what they wanted as a sister in law as I already had children when we meet and I was older.
His mother always (for his sake) was polite to me when ever there was a get to gether.But looking back in all the years we have been married she has never once sent me a birthday card or bought me a christmas present (every birthday and christmas she got one from us)which i traveled long and hard to find something nice.
Let me explaine my children from a previous marrage have now grown up and left home and we just have our son
just recently one of my husbands siblings got married for the second time round and at the last minuate ( a day or two before)my huband was contacted by his mother to say his sibling hadn,t invited us. I was furiouse as we were not told the reason why and that his mother had to tell us the sibling couldn,t do his own dirty work!!! Am I wrong to be furious? I have since cut off ties with his mother however I don,t stop my son from talking to her if we see her in town, but I will not have anything to do with her as she new from the very begining and nevr said anything, also a week or two before this blew up the was a family gettogether were lots of his family were present and thaey all knew but us.