my fiance is bi polar we've been together for 2 1/2 + years. Hes compleatly changed from the person that I fell in love with. It seems like he has become immature dresses diffrent acts diffrent basically he only looks like the man I fell in love with. I've asked him to get re-evaluated but he feels that he is fine and doesnt want to get checked. I want the man back that I fell in love with but I have a feeling that that man doesnt exist anymore. Hes managed to get me into alot of trouble along the way. He maxed out 2 of his mothers credit cards and now she is holding me 50% responsible for repayment. I never used the cards and told him not to. we moved into an appartment together and now he uses the money selfishly and he acts immature when he doesnt get his own way. For example I gave my fiance $10 I made it very clear that it needed to go into the gas tank. he decides not to go where he was planning on going but instead of giving me back my money that I put aside for gas to get me to work he comes back home with coffee and a pack of cigaretts and $4. needless to say I'm mad beyond all belief because now I only have $45 to last me 1 1/2 weeks until I get paid again and this needs to get me back and forth to work and I work 30miles away. Theres a lot more to this story but basically I'm asking for advice on when its time to leave this relationship.
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