
Family & Friends of Bipolar Support Group
This community is dedicated to parents, siblings, grandparents, other relatives and friends of someone who is Bipolar. The purpose of this community is to help families and friends develop greater patience and understanding, as well as maintain a positive, caring relationships with those diagnosed as Bipolar.

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Hi guys,
I've decided that its time to face up to my rape so that I can begin to get over it, and part of doing that means telling my parents. I know dad will take it hard and will be very angry at the guy that did this to me, but it's my mum that I'm worried about.
What if finding this out sends her over the edge? She's already so unstable and not taking her meds, what if finding this out sends her into some sort of a breakdown? Is it really worth risking her health for the sake of my own?
I don't know what to do. It's hard to know how she will even react. I know she loves me deep down inside (really deep sometimes), but some of the things she has said in the past have been really hurtful. What if her way of coping with this is to shut me out and not believe what I tell her. What if she turns against me?
I'm really confused.Any advice?
Love,
Tracey.
I've decided that its time to face up to my rape so that I can begin to get over it, and part of doing that means telling my parents. I know dad will take it hard and will be very angry at the guy that did this to me, but it's my mum that I'm worried about.
What if finding this out sends her over the edge? She's already so unstable and not taking her meds, what if finding this out sends her into some sort of a breakdown? Is it really worth risking her health for the sake of my own?
I don't know what to do. It's hard to know how she will even react. I know she loves me deep down inside (really deep sometimes), but some of the things she has said in the past have been really hurtful. What if her way of coping with this is to shut me out and not believe what I tell her. What if she turns against me?
I'm really confused.Any advice?
Love,
Tracey.
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