Family & Friends of Bipolar Support Group
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My husband is BP, he smokes weed. Every night, before the kids are in bed(*ages 6$10) he lights
I think it is completely inappropriate! He says the kids don't know however, I have to explain what the skunk smell is when we are lying in bed watching tv. I went down there last night and there he is with the pipe getting ready to light up, I must have scared him cause he jumped and I said,"do you mind waiting until your children are asleep so i don't have to explain what the skunk smell is!!!!!! He looks at me like I am this raving bithc!!! He never socializes yet, last night around 7 said he was going over to the neighbors to see if they wanted to spark one-- it's seven oclock, his children are around and all he worries about is getting high!!!!!! Is it just me?????? He had friday off- my youngest has basketball practice at 6. He loves BB! I am driving home and praying that for once, he would take the initiative and take him to practice. I pull in the drive and there sits my 6 yr old crying b/c daddy didn't want to leave before you got home so you wouldn't leave. He was already 20 min late. Thye house was a complete disaster and my husband says he is sorry but he didn't feel good. My children report that he slept up until the time I came home. This was his only day to help me prepare for his mothers vist in 3 days!!! The same mother who racked me over the coals for everything! UGGGGGGGGGGG Is it just ME????????'
I think it is completely inappropriate! He says the kids don't know however, I have to explain what the skunk smell is when we are lying in bed watching tv. I went down there last night and there he is with the pipe getting ready to light up, I must have scared him cause he jumped and I said,"do you mind waiting until your children are asleep so i don't have to explain what the skunk smell is!!!!!! He looks at me like I am this raving bithc!!! He never socializes yet, last night around 7 said he was going over to the neighbors to see if they wanted to spark one-- it's seven oclock, his children are around and all he worries about is getting high!!!!!! Is it just me?????? He had friday off- my youngest has basketball practice at 6. He loves BB! I am driving home and praying that for once, he would take the initiative and take him to practice. I pull in the drive and there sits my 6 yr old crying b/c daddy didn't want to leave before you got home so you wouldn't leave. He was already 20 min late. Thye house was a complete disaster and my husband says he is sorry but he didn't feel good. My children report that he slept up until the time I came home. This was his only day to help me prepare for his mothers vist in 3 days!!! The same mother who racked me over the coals for everything! UGGGGGGGGGGG Is it just ME????????'
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
I would be very worried about him doing it in front of the kids. What the heck is that teaching them? No offense to you but lay down the law on this one. Personally I could care less what people do in thier own homes but come on he has kids that learn that kind of behavior... Sorry if my reply is coming on strong but that is just BS on his part.
Try putting some gun powder in one of his doobies about a 1/4" down inside. I can see him now taking a hit saying, "Oh Yeah" right as it pops under his nose burning his nose hairs right out. Just kidding, do not attempt this.
When his habit came before bills, food, the kids, and etc. I was done!!
And he still hasnt put the bowl down yet! From what I am hearing. I got sick of being his mother!
I got sick of his hissy fits when he didnt get his way. I got sick of finding his weed in his pockets and crap. So Well I always let the washer take care of getting rid of it. My lame reason was, "You should clean out your own dang pockets" har har.
Loving and being with someone who's BP is the hardest thing you will ever do in life.
I feel that after I spent those 9 yrs in hell! That there isnt anything in a future relationship I wont be able to handle and manage!
I am looking for everything I NEVER HAD in b/f. Which basicly is someone who isnt BP.. I make the statement all the time "I will NEVER DATE another BP person ever."
Its harsh to say but when you've walked in my shoes, and your own. Once you break free, its like being out of prison! I did my time for his crime.
I am not heartless. But, I did loss my poetic heart, my own emotions.
Sorry for the ranting.
But I can say I understand you fully!!
I hated working 3rd shifts. I'd come home at 7am get the kids off to school. I had to stay up till 11am to get the youngest off to school cause I could never wake him up. The only way to wake him up was to be a B to him. Then I got ragged on all day cos I woke him up wrong and made him made.. But, hello!! I am beat from working all night to support your dead arse I want sleep and you cant get up with your own to get him off to pre school!!!...
I did all the cleaning, he'd cook dinner and leave our kitchen a bloody mess! I did teh laundry I did everything.
While he sat on his nothing and either had his face in the pc all day or the xbox!!
Oy I feel beter after that RANT!!