I have been married for 8 1/2 years. I dealt with my h depression, bipolar, spending problems, drinking, sleeping problems, etc. I love him a lot. We have one child together. I always wanted more but with all the issues with my H we never had another one. My son is ADHD. He has my attuide and my h moods. Great for me (not). THe first half of my marriage my h was on afternoon and I was on days. So we never saw one another, hardly. It work okay. When my son started to go to school, problems started. My h could not be depended on to get my son from or to school. Caused a lot of problems between us. I was glad when K came they had daycare. When first grade came the problems with my son started. He was suspended 8 times. I dealt with it all. Yes my h went to the school to get him for the most part but I was the one who tired to get my son help he needed. (testing, counsling, whatever) I had to be there for him. My H sleep alot of the time during the day/afternoon even with my son home. I was alway upset that he was not there for our son. My h finaly went to midnight. THings got better bettwen us. He was getting sleep. He still had to be called to get my son. We switched school for our son. Helped my son out. It been better for my son. We know he seem to be going back to his old ways. He not sleeping during the day so he sleeping from the time I get home till the time he leaves for the most part. I am back to doing everything for our son taking him to school. Most of the time I pick him up. He does sometimes but only if I call him several times to get him up. He back to drinking which I know makes his moods worst. He also is popping pills for anything he can. THe doctors seem to inable this habit. He has pills for headache, stomach problems, foot pain, depression. On top of all that he takes iburpoen and drinks. Just not sure what to do anymore. I cant go down his self distructive road anymore. He has to help him self. I lost at what to do.
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