My BP BF is blaming me for everything that's going wrong in his life right now. He's manic. He tells me that my daughter and I have three months to move from our home (it's in his name) every time he gets angry with me. This has been going on for about a month and a half now. I NEED to know FOR SURE what is going on. I've asked him a few times if he meant what he said and he says things like....just stay where you are , you're fine right there......I don't know if I want to be with you, stay for now....I don't want you to go.....let's move forward. He has moved back to his apartment above his office. He comes to the house (where I live) and leaves coffee and donuts for my daughter and me very early in the morning. He leaves them on the doorstep, but we don't really talk anymore and I haven't seen him in.....maybe a week (and that was for a short time). Can anyone make sense of this??? He seems to be slowing down a bit. I know the person he "really" is and he'd never treat me like that. I don't believe he wants me to go. Insight please????
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