After a very stressful month with my son we were slowly starting to try to get to a new norm for all of us .Then he started to get a little stressed , had strep , was having blood in his stool and now seems like things are going down hill really fast.:( In the past week he seems to have little impulse control and has shaved his arms and legs while in the shower and then the other nite shaved a line down the top of his head.Then nite before last he came upstairs where me and my daughter were watching TV and points and shoots at her with a nerf gun.So today I am at school volunteering and he comes up and says he is on his way to the office that he has an ERASER stuck in his ear.AT first I think he is lying but the school nurse brought him back up and showed me and said he needed to be taken to the DR.So I come home tell the hubby who is off and we talk to CLay and he lies about how it got in his ear then finally tells the truth .Then we take him to the Dr and they cannot get it out and we have to go see an ear specialist to get it removed and on the way home the hubby is all mad and says mean things and I tell him to just take us home and then I took Clay back over to the specialist alone.They damn near did not get it out .Now we are back home and I find out he had it out with the neighbor kids and one of their mom's and he did not tell me the whole truth.I DO NOT know how much more I can take.It is always something.He will not stay at school and several things he has said were wrong with him to get out of it we think he has done to himself.We cannot trust him to be out of our site he is 10 yrs old.It is worse than when he was 2.Sorry this is so long i just do not know what to do anymore.No one will help us and tell us what to do or what will help.I do not want to raise a kid no one likes or trusts.He is a good ,sweet kid in his right mind.He is SO not himself and there seems to be little we can do about it. I am so frustrated and scared.
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