Yes he is BP teen. No he does not see a psyc. Dr. Yes he is on meds for BP. I do not make decisions regarding his health care. My DD has not made the psyc. dr. a priority. Since he was hospitalized (for the 2nd. time) the drs there put him on these new meds and for a while he seemed to be doing OK. That's always the way it goes..ok for a while. He has been caught several times using drugs. I dont know if it's more than the weed...but I fear it is. Last week while I was away, he came into my home(without permission) and brought in 5 teens 2 have criminal records.Our jewelry and other items were stolen that night and I am devastated. We had the police here and my gs admitted to drinking wine and smoking the weed. Said he fell asleep and when he woke the others were gone. My worst fear is that he stole from us to by drugs. I dont have a relationship with my dd...she is highly critical and thinks she knows it all. I fear that she has put him in a 'Boot Camp' which is really a prison. How do I stay emotionally detached from all this? My need to know what's going on over there is driving me crazy. And the idea that he could steal from us has wiped me out both physically and mentally. My depression has gotten the best of me and I need to hear that he can be helped before my worst fears are realized. We have always been very close to him and b/c he has abandonment issues by 2 fathers we always felt the need to fill in and be in his life more than perhaps we should have been. Anyone relate? I'd appreciate the feedback.
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