Im hurting and I need help. My wife, I believe is undiagnosed bi=polar. I have done alot of reading and she has classic symptoms. 1 week I have my wife, next 2 weeks she is so depressed she cant get off the couch, then the next 2 weeks she is ramping up with anger and rage. I can't do anything right. That 1st week she just nitpicks me to death and it raises and raises to she out of control and violent. She talks to me like im a punk on the street she hates. The language is horrible. I have begged her to get help, but she wont do it, there is nothing wrong with her. I have been wrong and screamed back after Ive been cussed out so much that I cant take it anymore. I am trying, but maybe being married is too stressful for her. Maybe Im her trigger, I dont know. I am so tired of being blamed for everything that is wrong with her. I am looking for a support group now that I can go to in my area to get a better handle, but I can afford a psychologist, and I dont have insurance. People are there coping mechanisms I can use to deal with the rage? How do I handle it and not get so hurt? I know its not her, but its so hard.
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