heres the scoop..i am so highly upset..i just went out the eat with my hubby at mcdonalds..while there he starts telling me how his ex wife used him for a roof over his head, and to have him get her pregnant. this is the same ex wife who repeatedly cheated on him,but he stayed with. i have asked and told him before how i get tired of hearing about his ex wife and how him and her did this and that, and how his supposed children loved him so much...the reason why..i had my 2 youngest children at home until the courts found out then took them because he was around....i feel he talks more about the kids from his past with his ex wife way more often than he talks about mine or his stepkids. i am confused..i thought he wanted a future...in my mind,,,if all you talk about and remember is the past..thats all you are going to have???? i feel as if my requests are not even heeded? any advice? anyone else gone through this?
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