Although i love my boyfriend with all of my heart and i can't imagine my life with out him i often wonder if its worth it. I understand that he is obviously going through a difficult time and needs my support. I give my support to him whole heartedly but i do not receive that same support in return. Is that just selfish of me to expect? There are so many things i have to give up in my life to be with him and i often wonder if i am being stupid by sticking around and giving up so many important dreams of mine to be with him. Th one that ways on my mind is children. I have never been one to want to give birth. Be a mother yes but carry my own child forget it. It has been my dream since high school to adopt and because of all of this if i stay with him i can't do that. It breaks my heart everyday. So my question is although there are things you have to give up in your life to stay with your significant other how do you keep the relationship together with out feeling resentment toward that person? When if ever is it time to say enough is enough and i shouldnt have to give up things in my life and dreams in my life that important to me because of something that happened to you?
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