My adult son is schizophenic and during 1 of his recent hospital visits admitted to something he said happened with his step daughter. About 2 months later he was arrested and had 2 charges for a lewed act on or invlving a minor. He has been in jail the last 60 days and no sign of a court date and i made a decision to bond him out today. I think i was mostly afraid he might go to prison and I might never get to hug him or kiss him again.He has a public defender because of course money and I am so scared we may get what we pay for. I guess they have to contact the mom (his ex girlfiend) to let her know he was released. The calls have been non stop all evening from her and her mom. The 1st one from each I answered because i felt like they had a right to voice there opinion to me. WOW horrible nasty things are being left on my voice mail things i could never repeat and can't believe someone is saying.I will never be allowed to see mt grandkids again. I called the police and they said just block ther # but you can;'t do that on my cell phone.I guess this is just the beginning for us. I will now not answer my phone if I don't know the #. He is my son and I hate what he may have done but as much as everyone including his dad have told me to wash my hands of him I could not so it. I just i think needed to say this to someone and i appreciate yal being here to listen.
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