first of all he's already had to deal with what i have to say about it and he is dealing with it like an adult. Havent you ever seen these kinds of girls before? I was 15 once. I dont believe 15 year old slutty girls to be CHILDREN. And i never will. They start younger and younger. Ever watch maury? Those girls are 13 - 15 crying about how they're gonna get pregnant and have sex with as many older men as they want they dont care who says what? That's not a child. That's an immature stupid adolescent. They let these same "children" get behind the wheel of a car. So i'm not buying that bull about her being a CHILD. I've weighed out the responsibility and don't think for a minute that i just kiss his ass and pretend like its ALL her fault. You misinterpreted what i said. i grilled him hard about all of it. i'm very involved with his therapy. i remind him when he needs it that he had chance after chance to get out of it and didnt do it and now he has to pay for it. i tell him that no one did this to him but himself. yeah he gets it from me bad. even worse by the state. i just dont think he deserves what he go. that girl was not a virgin, she manufactured the whole lie to her dad and she was the one who came on to him. some victim. i'm a victim of my step dad's sex offensiveness. i dont recall begging my step dad to secretly videotape me in the shower. and the state didnt do shit about that. he got away with it. he got away with everything. he blew off his sex offender probation and he's still out on the streets. he molested his own daughters. i know what a real monster is. i'm not just some stupid lovestruck girl who is whining about her self inflicted psychological trauma. and, futhermore, if it was my daughter and she was out sleeping with men ten years older than her at 15 i'd be beating both their asses. not destroying him and babying her like she's some kind of victim. she knew that what she was doing was wrong, illegal and could get him into trouble. but because she's a 15 year old CHILD she gets no responsibility. i think at 15 they should be smart enough to know the difference. i was. i think those girls should be punished too. it'd sure lower the numbers of girls in their early teens runnin around puttin out for the first tom, dick, and harry they see. if he had in fact raped her or manipulated her then it'd be a whole different story. and he's not lying. i read all the reports and court statements thanks to his group counselor. he would have gotten away with everything if he hadn't gone down to the police station with the girls dad and turned himself in, telling the whole truth. he decided to be honest thinking it would count for something. i tried to tell him that in this day and age, honesty counts for absolutely nothing. i know my facts about this so i'd appreciate it if the judgemental party kept their useless rude insufferable "know it all" remarks to themselves. to the others who aren't judging and have been kind and helpful, thank you so much. it really means alot to me. i'll return kindness to those who give it.
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