AS YOU ALL KNOW MY SON HAS BEEN IN JAIL FOR THE PAST 20 YEARS. I KNOW IM BLUNT AND I CAN STICK MY OWN FOOT IN MY OWN MOUTH WITHOUT ANY HELP FROM ANYONE ELSE BUT THATS JUST ME.HOW DO I HANDLE IT. WELL IF THERES DRUGS INVOLVED I MYSELF WOULD RATHER HAVE MY SON IN JAIL.YOU HAVE TO REALISE YOU DIDNT DO IT . EVERYONE HAS CHOICES IN LIFE AND MY SON MADE A LOT OF WRONG CHOICES. PEOPLE MAKE MISTAKES SOME BIGGER THAN OTHERS.AT FIRST I BLAMED MYSELF BUT THAT DIDNT LAST LONG . I THOUGHT THERE IS KNOW WAY I WOULD WANT MY SON TO TAKE DRUG OR STEAL. HE HAD A GOOD LIFE.IT WAS BETTER THAN MINE.ALSO AT FIRST HE DID THE CRIME AND I DID THE TIME. BUT THAT DOESNT EVEN HAPPEN ANYMORE.NOW IVE HAD ALL MY KIDS IN JAIL. I CALL IT FOLLOW THE LEADER.I SAY TO MY SELF A LOT. HOW IMPORTANT IS IT AND IF IT AINT INPORTANT I DONT WORRY ABOUT.MY SON HAS BEEN IN EVERY JAIL IN SOUTH EAST QUEENLAND SO IVE SEEN A FEW.THE LIFE THEY CHOOSE. YES THEY CHOOSE IT NOT US. YOU THINK ABOUT IT WOULD YOU WANT YOUR KIDS IN JAIL. "NO". I DONT WORRY ABOUT WHAT PEOPLE THINK NEITHER .I FIGURE IF THEY ARE STUPID ENOUGH TO LOOK DOWN ON ME BECAUSE OF WHAT MY KIDS HAVE DONE THERE NOT WORTH KNOWING. AND I HAVE ENOUGH FRIENDS. THE ONES I REALLY WANT.SO IVE SAID MY PEACE. KEEP YOUR CHINS UP IT DOES GET EASIER. I KNOW LOVE WENDY
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