I'm starting to get a little upset because every other post I read someone is defending themselves or their loved ones who are in jail. Myself, I don't care what other people think and EVERYONE in my life knows my daughters father is in jail and they won't give me advice or options because I will chew them up and spit them out!!! Why should we feel the need to defend ourselves because we choose to be with someone who is in jail????? Oh wait...I forgot we live in a perfect society where everyone does the right thing all the time. 99% of the population has broken the law at some point in time, they just never got caught or what they did was not serious enough to get them in trouble. It just really makes me mad when people judge other people. Who do these people think they are? Why don't they look in the mirror and evaluate their own lives instead of other peoples. People judge others because they have doubts about their own lives and WE SHOULD NOT let it affect us. Other people do not have to live our lives so why should we let what they have to say bother us so much? Ladies, you are the ones who deal with your daily struggles and the fact that your husband or boyfriend is in jail. DO NOT LET other people make you feel bad for this and DO NOT feel the need to defend yourself!!!!! YOU live with the consequence so you are the only one who has the right to criticize your life!!!!
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