I had my very first visit with Clemon on 1-26-08. During our visit his demeanor annoyed me a lot and I told me. He responded that because my being annoyed he would expect to receive a letter from me voicing my feelings. He went on to say that he wanted me to be truthful and not hold anything back. That's what I did. Well, I received a letter today from him. He fussed me up one side and down the other regarding my letter. The letter was so harsh. I'm like, here I am financing this relationship. Excepting collect calls, sending him monies, writing him daily. Then I go for a visit which is 7 hours round trip. I stay for the weekend so that we can have 2 visits, 6 hours each. These are contact visits. Stay in a motel overnite, more money. And bring monies to the visit so that you can eat descent food. Go through the humilitation of gates, metal detectors, searches, filling out forms, doors slamming behind me, guards watching our every move. And you have the nerve to complain about me sharing with you the things that annoy me. What happened to, "Thanks for taking the time to come. I enoyed our visit".
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