Okay Group. I don't come asking for much, but I was just told (rather emailed) something today, and I don't know whether to act in a positive light or a negative light. Of course, we all have our bouts with sanity; we have a lot going on in our lives. Sometimes we don't know whether to laugh or to cry, to get angry or to be grateful. I have a friend. She is a Reverend's Wife. Much younger, just starting to "live" life in the real world. Very little experience in life. She sends me an email in regards to my "situation". So she tells me that everything will be okay, and to put Christ first. Always, "put Christ first". Okay, I get that. Then she goes on to say that perhaps I didn't put Christ first and that's perhaps why God took my husband away from me. Now, that's a little low. I can't imagine the God that I serve being so vindictive. My husband is the best thing that has happened to me, and I give God all the glory and praise for that. He was sent by God especially for me. Now, you have put it in my head that perhaps my husband is locked away because of something that I failed to do? Like I need another something else to clog my head. Then she tries to compare a dream that she had with her husband being jailed, to my situation. How can you even do that? Perhaps its just me and my insanity. Perhaps I'm making too big a deal of it. All I know is that I'm fed up to here with people giving me advice and trying to reason with me when they haven't walked a day in my shoes.
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