My husband of 7 years was just sentenced last week to 5 years. He will have to serve roughly 3 and 10 months. We have a 3 year old and a 1 and a half year old girls. I have tried during this whole devastating process to be as helpful, supportive and comforting as I possibly can. But, it doesn't seem to transfer to him. Every day he gives me a set of all of these duties to do that never end...call this person, send something to that person, write him more, put more money on his phone account, put more money on his commissary, meet with more lawyers even though he's already been sentenced. Every day he complains about something new and he fails to realize that now I am STUCK with having to be a single mom for the next 4 years and I barely have money to clothe our children let alone put money on the phone account so he can call me literally 10 times a day to "see what I am doing". It hurts me so much...he has been in jail for 9 months now and I have been completely faithful to him and I want to continue our marriage but he is seriously driving me crazy trying to be this control-freak lunatic in jail. He argues with me when I go visit him with our kids...he just makes me want to leave! :(
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