I'm hoping to marry my guy in the not too distant future, and was wondering if they allow you any time alone together either before or after the ceremony. I could wait until he gets out because I know it is going to be even harder after we marry to leave him inside those four walls than it is now. But, with no legal connection to James saying I am a part of his family, the facility wouldn't even notify me if something happened to him, and I'm sure they wouldn't take any issues I might have regarding his quality of life there seriously. But, the biggest reason I don't want to wait is because I simply want to belong to him and he to me. Why wait if you are sure? He is the finest man I know, in prison or out. He's not perfect, but we're suited to each other and desire to spend the rest of our lives taking care of each other. Tell me the pros and cons from your perspective folks. I promise I'll listen to each person's view with an open mind.
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