So I called the prison to check on my visitation application status today. The last time I checked was in June, and they said they got it on June 16th and it was being processed. Then proceeded to tell me to call back in 30-40 days to check again on it. So being antsy, I called a little earlier than 30 days. When I spoke to the lady at the prison she told me I was approved and had been approved since june 21st! WHAT!? I so would have already been to see my guy since I haven't seen him since his sentence date in court! I was shocked, overwhelmed and very confused! What I don't understand is that the prison said my guy would get notification when I had been approved for visitation & phone calls. So, why hasn't he told me I was approved. I have been getting letters from him every week, and after the date they told me I was approved. Why hasn't he tried to collect call me then? Is it possible he hasn't been notified yet? Does it take them more than 3 weeks to notify him? Im a little mad, confused, but most of all excited! I plan on seeing him this Sunday. That's when the prison said I could come, cause his building gets visits on odd numbered days. I told her he would not know I was coming cause I won't be able to write him and get something back letting him know I was coming in time before this weekend. The lady said it will be a surprise then, and he would still be able to see me even if he didn't know. So should I go? Or should I write him first? Any advise? And I still need some advice on what to wear, and all that since this is my first time with everything. Any suggestions, advice, comments, would be totally appreciated! Thanks for listening!!!
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