Well I got a letter from my fiance today. it was pretty upsetting. I admit I had been in a funk and said some stuff. But, he took what I said the wrong way and accused me of thinking he doesn't love me and that he is a bad person. But, I don't think that because he is in prison and made mistakes that he is a bad person. I wouldn't have stayed with him for 7 almost 8 years if I thought he was a bad person. But now he says he doesn't want me to write him anymore because I don't want to but I never said that I love writing him and getting his letters. He also told me to stop writing because my letters are depressing. Which I know is true I was wallowing for a few weeks. But, he does the same thing which I totally understand it's only normal in that situation. But, his mom and family/friends never write him letters and I think he expects me to just abandon him as well which I'm not going to do and I've told him that lots of times. I will keep sending him letters because he needs support from someone and I do love him deeply. But any suggestions on what to say or how to respond? And should I keep trying to contact his family? I've tried many times and I've tried to tell them to write him that he misses them and really needs there support and love. I'm a bit at my wits end right now. The worst part is as I'm sure you all know is that I can't just pick up the phone and call him and it will take a while before he gets my letter responding back if he even reads my letters.
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