You made a comment for all you know he is lying, how do you know his babies moms isn't the one telling the lie's? You also wrote you went to visit a day with his mother, how did it go, did you all have a good day together? Go to your man, talk to him, if you had a good day with his moms, talk to her. Your young, other females are jealous, don't let it even phase you unless it comes dirrectly from the hourses mouth you could say, your boyfriend.
Ignore his babies moms, if she continues to call your cell, and your not putting any coal on the fire, report her in for harressment, you have every right to be left alone. Question is, how did she get your cell phone number?

Good luck to what ever you decide.

Mamabear59
Lynn

she wants him back and she thinks if you break it off with nick that he will go back to her so dont beleave her wait and talk to nick his mom likes you so she is trying to break yall up so you need to let her know "her loss your gain" good luck but just talk to nick about all this before you drive yourself crazy

If you can wait to bring it up when you're in a visit with him. It's easier to lie on paper. I always know when James is lying to me cause he won't look me in the eye. I agree with the others that more than likely this girl wants him back. I feel bad that you're having such a hard time first your cousin now the dreaded ex. You were so excited about getting along with his mom and how pleased she was the he met you. Remember that and trust your instincts. Try not to stress (I know that's the hardest part is not knowing what's going on.) Do you know how she got your cell number? Stay strong and take it one day a time.

Baby mama drama is the worst. Sweety you need to work on you...stop worry so much about what other's thing. Nick has alot of time inside and all this drama will wash itself out. Don't talk to these people when they start their nonsense. Jeolousy is an illness. I too have dealt with the baby mama drama to the point that I just don't deal with it anymore. Talk to Nick let him know what is going on and then go from there but you DO NOT have to talk to these people. When they call hang up..you have control over whom you talk to espec. on the phone. Baby mama drama is usually intended just to stir the pot of insecure emotions and it works if we allow them to get to us.

It sounds like the drama is jealousy on her end. But, it also sounds like you have some doubts that this could be taking place with the letters that Nick sends her. You should just very calmly tell Nick that you received this call and what was said, then ask him for his side of the story. As we know, there are always 20 sides to every story. The truth will lie somewhere in the middle and I believe you will be able to sense what the truth is after your conversation with him. I hope it goes well for you!

You know I think she didn't get your # out of the sky...someone had to give it to her. This is way too much drama for any person to go through. Trust your gut not your heart. Deep down inside you know the truth.. follow that. RIght now all he knows is he's locked down and wants and needs people to write and see him. That's all he has. Maybe he is the reason for all this drama. Either way before you become this ride or die chick. Make sure you're alright first, because when it all boils down to it all you have is you.

how did she get your number? trust is a hard thing when too many players stir the pot, both could be playing you. she could be trying to test you on your relationship. who do yopu believe ,neither both will show what they think you need to hear and see. He maybe telling truth too and this is a real test for you both. Talk to his mom , maybe helpful, provided she is happy with your relationship. rough spot you are in here.

Tell her that you want to see the letters. It's time for her to put up or shut up.

It sounds like she is jealous..but I agree, just ask her to see the letters or a letter and that will clear things up. Good luck, but don't stress over it for sure. If she has nothing to hide then she will gladly hand the letters over.