My son is doing 25 to life for murder of his own son. I know in my heart it was an accident and bad jugement. I was right up front with him and told him how I felt. Because I did think he should be in prison but not for murder. I'm always there for him. I only get to visit him once a year because , he is 2000 mi. away. After I told him what I thought, we could talk and corrspone better.

Wow, you are a great mother. Alot of mothers wouldn't do half of what you do. I hope your so knows and tells you thanks for being a great mom. Hang in there, I'm sorry to hear he has little children and is in prison for life that has to be hard on your family. Stay strong and God Bless!

I feel your pain. My daughter will be in prison for a while also because of poor judgment and the actions of those she went with. You are doing a wonderful thing by standing by your son, but I understand your anger. I sometimes feel like I want to tell my daughter how angry I am but I don't want to waste my visits with negative energy. Perhaps you need to write a letter with all your feelings and then burn it and ask God to help you through this. I did this with my feelings for my ex husband and I felt better. It is kind of silly sounding but it helps put feelings somewhere...maybe try it with your feelings about your son. Stay strong and blessings.