I just wanted to let you guys know that I have turned him in to the admins here for DS. I was made very aware of what was going on between him and a teen girl using this site that lives in my state. When he first joined he and I were talking about normal stuff, and he mentioned he was moving to my city. I offered him a tour to get to know the area as it can be a little frightening in a new place and not knowing where to go for things like groceries and where to go for electric and the city isn't the most user friendly. I was offering this as a FRIEND ONLY. Anyway, after serveral chats he mentioned date. I had to clear that up real quick and basically he rarely ever messaged me again. This sent red flags that a friend is not what he was looking for. Then this girl's hug shows up on his profile (which he has no erased by the way) so I messaged her. She lives nearby and she's young and I just don't like girls to get used or abused, and I had read through her journal and it's a sad story.. Anyway. She sent me a reply several in fact copies of all they had talked about. Let me say SEEDY stuff. Things that even I if I were single would NOT EVER speak of online with a total stranger. I have sent him an email to get his side of things, but thought all of us women here fighting to keep our sanity, and those of us that are more vulnerable should know what is going on. I suggested to him that he find a good dating site. At any rate, I noticed that this was being hinted on in another post here, but didn't think it was clear enough. I just want to make sure none of us are being targeted by guys that are just plain........ I don't even have a good enough word for them. Just don't want to be a target. I'm sorry if I have offended anyone here that may be friends with this user. It is possible that he isn't targeting everyone, and he could even offer up some good info but couple that with the harm he must be doing, is it really worth it? I'd rather get info from a reputable good person then one who only pretends to be good.
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