I dont know if anyone can offer any words of wisdome here, but i really am having a hard time. I have been with this man for over 13 yrs. Breaking it off a couple times in the early yrs. when my oldest was young. He was arrested on drug charges 2 yrs. ago and was sentenced to 12 1/2 yrs. He is really manipulative and controlling. We got along as a family and have alot of good memories, i guess im thinking this "time" would change him. In the two yrs already he has still tried to manipulate me from in there. I told him I need to be free, as I have been in counseling for 2 yrs and really working on myself trying to get healthy. It seems he can only think of his own needs, I told him I will bring his kids to see him still. I am really not looking to be in a reletionship, but if theres someone out there at least im free now. It breaks my heart to see my kids without there daddy, especially my son, he want to do guy stuff that Im used to his dad doing with him. My problem is this... My ex is tring to make me feel so guily for choosing to not wait, and he is not going to make this easy on me. I think its an awful lot to demand. He want to keep calling me asking to reconsider, or can i help him through this. I feel he needs to look into what resources he has to help him with his feelings. This is very hard decision for me to make too. Sorry this is long just wondering, if anyone here is not with there guy and if anything could make this any easier?? I feel Ive made the right decision.
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