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Boyfriend In Prison

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My boyfriend and I were pulled over the other day on the way to my parents house. There was 1/4 of dope and maybe ecstasy but I don't remember. Anyways he's going in for possesion/sales and maybe even statutory, because the police knew from another incident that we'd been sleeping together. I'm really scared he won't make it in prison if they charge him with statutory. I don't want my baby to not have a father because he was killed in prison for something that isn't that big of a deal. I'm almost 18 so they might drop that charge, I'm REALLY hoping they will. He might also have the chance for a program for the drugs instead of prison and I'm hoping that's what he asks for. My drug & alcohol counselor might be able to help him out. Hopefully she can. Right now I guess I have to try and relax and not stress out the baby. I just hope he gets out before I give birth.
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have the lawyer explain your age and pregnancy and tellhim to ask for an inpatient drug program or to be transfered to drug court.
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Drugs and alcohol abuse are serious ADDICTIONS! Until you overcome these, there is nothing but trouble for both of you. Having sex with a minor is a immature personality
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Check this out.
http://www.ageofconsent.com/california.htm

how old's the guy?
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Thanks for the link, but he's 26 so he's 9 years older than I am.
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