I got a letter from my hubby today and it wasn't a very good letter. This always happens when we have to go this long without talking to one another. We always end up in a fight sooner or later. I feel horrible because his granny passed away a couple weeks ago and she was like a mother to him and i know he's going through a really rough time, but the things he said in his letter were really hurtful, not to mention that he wrote that letter on the 14th which was my birthday and i thought i'd get a letter alot different than that! I don't know how to respond to him because my first reaction was to write a "fuck you" reply letter, but when i'm upset i always lash out and say things that i really don't mean because i don't take the time to calm down and sort out what i'm really feeling. So, i'm not sure what i should say when i write him back later tonight. I don't want to fight with him, it's hard enough having to go without talking to him on the phone! I know he's just feeling insecure and down because he's in there and can't be out here with me, but it makes me so depressed when i get letters like that from him. What should i do?
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