I'll try to keep this short. I've known my man for 26 yrs. I'm 31, hes 38. We got together when I was 25, we got married, he went to prison for 5 yrs. we ended up splitting after 2 of those. and divorcing. 8 months after he got out we got back together. We have kids together, we didnt get a chance to remarry before he went back in. Well I asked him what he considers our anniversary. HE says he doesnt believe in anniversarys unless you're married. Every couple I know celebrates two anniversaries, their wedding and their first date or when they started dating. I told him I wanted to celebrate a day that we got back together. HE said thats silly, anniversarys are for weddings and when we remarry you'll have an anniversary date then okay. He wasnt upset or being insensitive, its just what he believes. So should I just let it go?? Does anyone else celebrate more than their wedding anniversary???
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