
Families & Friends of Gays & Lesbians Support Group
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This seems to more of a spouse kind of thing....

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I just recently (meaning today) found out that my boyfriend has had thoughts of being born the wrong gender.... He even considered doing the whole reassignment thing (researched it and everything) when his ex left him and he told me that if he would have lost his son too that he was gonna go through with it... I have tried my best to talk to him about it but considering I'm only the second person he's talked to about it it's not an easy conversation... I asked him if he still thought about it and was still considering it. He does think about it but he said that he's happy to be who he is now, to have me and hopefully add to the family soon... it doesn't bother me it's just I want him to be happy and be who he feels he is... It is strange, I do admit that and I just don't know what I can do for him or for us.... I would love for us to go to therapy to get help but I couldn't handle it and since were alot alike I don't think he could either. What can I do to I guess cope with it... I don't even know what to think or what I'm trying to say....
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I do understand where your coming from though and know that you guys understand more then I do about this so I will take your advice. As soon as we can we will seek counseling. I know that it's gonna be something we both need whether this is an issue later on in our lives together or not. We have been through alot in our separate lives and we will be through somethings in our life together but I think anything can be dealt with...
Wow I wrote alot! Sorry... I defiantly needed that though! Thanks for caring and being so understanding.
He has given you an incredible gift - and helped you to understand that you are special - take that strentgh, and let him go, and find someone who is able to return fully what you have to offer. Someone who will also see what your friend has given to you, but will able to love you completely as you deserve to be loved.
We have decided to stop trying for a baby (although I think I'm already pregnant).
Anyways I have had alot of time to think it over this weekend. I have decided that we'll just see what happens. I know I could face some hard times in the future but I would hope that I'd still have you guys to come to.