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she ditched me

deleted_user
deleted_user
some who i thought was my best friend ditched me for her girlfriend yesterday. we were supposed 2 go take pictures like we do every spring break since we started high schoolbut she decided 2 go with her girl to an amusment park instead.
it hurts & i cant beleive after everything we have been through she chose that new girl over her best friend =[ wtf!??!
ozfm
ozfm
It hurts when friends do things like that. It's their heart ruling their head. Hopefully she'll come to her senses soon and won't do it again. Had you made arrangements? I would tell her that she hurt your feelings by dumping you like that, she could have gone to the amusement park another time
deleted_user
deleted_user
yeah we had made arrangements. then her plans changed so i got cut out of the plan. & yeah i told her how i felt & she said she doesnt feel bad cuz she had fun & i had fun too. theres 3 of us in our little friendship, the 3 of us always take pics & stuff but this year one ditched us so i went out with the other friend. so yeah
deleted_user
deleted_user
A new romance can go to ppl's heads at times, especially when they're first getting to really know each other.

But even so, for her to blow you off like that and say she doesn't feel bad is a sad reflection on her! One day she's going to need her friends, but burning bridges like this will leave her out in the cold.

Make an effort to continue including her in your activities, but if she keeps blowing you off, take it for the sign that it is... that she isn't the friend you thought she was.

It's hard, high school yrs are the roughest cuz you're growing & changing so much! But still... she could be a better friend!
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