
Families & Friends of Gays & Lesbians Support Group
This community is dedicated to parents, siblings, grandparents, other relatives and friends of someone who is either gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender or questioning their sexual orientation. The purpose of this community is to help families and friendships grow and maintain positive relationships with gay sons, daughters, family or friends.
Pat- did you ever think of staying with this man and just playing to his bisexuality, or are you uncomfortable with this? Maybe have a 3some with another man, watch gay porn together, etc. Just because he also likes men does NOT mean he does not love you. If you are forcing him to keep in the closet about his feelings for men is he WILL do it secretly.
My advice is to try and forgive him. Let him know he can trust you not to judge him. If you cannot stay in a relationship with him, there is nothing wrong with that either. You have to do what makes you happy as well. Just try and understand that he has turmoil about this too or he would have been honest to start with. I hope I helped a little. If you decide to stay with him and ever want to talk, I am here.