When I approach the topic of what upsets me with my boyfriend he is always turning it around on me. It is that I think he's leaving me and because i fear that I feel insecure and when I look at him all he sees is that insecurity. He completely disregards all the things he isn't doing that he normally does but blames me. the most recent time I spent with him that brought up the topic of his use I actually was excited and hopeful to be around him. Until he started using while I was there we were having a great time until he decided to take some Oxy. After that he started getting focused in everything except me and then fell asleep. It is really difficult to talk to him about my feels when he does this. I know I am not at fault but it makes me feel like I am the problem since he has decided that it is all my doing. Then he threw in that he is sober today and he feels fantastic until this conversation. I'm finding myself looking for confirmation that I am not the one making this happen even though I do see the reality.
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