my ex! husband, an addict has been clean since august. we were supposed to meet last friday for dinner to go over somethings. well he never showed, and it is not like him not to show up somewhere when he is supposed to. well, i called him and i got his voicemail. i still had the pass word to his account so i checked his voicemail. he had some messages on there from his mom. his mom lives beside him, she sent the messages at 4 and 5 am. saying that if he does not come home he would not have a place to live. well, on saturday he called me because he had been on a 2 day crack binge and needed to eat and sleep and wanted me to come get him. i went, even tho i should not have. i just dont know what to do? do i keep helping him even tho i dont agree with what he is doing or do i just not answer his calls. i know he is still out there doing what he does best. i just want to know that he is ok? is it wrong of me to still worry about him being i am not his wife anymore?
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