I need some advice on how to handle a MAJOR issue in my relationship with my bf, who is an addict. It seems he has exchanged his drug habit for a computer obsession. We had a lot of issues in the early part of our relationship with websites, like MySpace and Facebook, and sat down and worked thru those and got past it. But, now he has started lying to me about being on the computer, after we made an agreement that we knew would help with the trust issues stemming from it, and not only is he lying to me, but now he is sneaking home during the day when he is supposed to be working and doesn't think I am wise to it! I have been really sticking to the agreement, until today by coming here, but I need some advice because if this keeps up, our relationship will come to an end because of the lies and distrust. I love him very much, but I can't/won't tolerate the lying and sneaking, especially when he could lose his job because of the sneaking home during the day. I don't know what else to do...I don't want our relationship to come to an end, but I am at a loss here. Please help!!!
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