I am currently separated from my husband due to his drinking, unemployment and trouble with the law. He desparately wants our relationship to work because I beleive he needs my financial and emotional supprt. He just called and wants me to pick him up and bring him to the house so he can help me take the Christmas tree down and a long list of other things we need to do together. I don't want his help but have not been able to get the message across to him. If I'm subtle he percieves that to mean that I want to continue our relationship. If I come right out and say what I feel I'm being a self centered bitch. I'm so angry right now that my hands and body are shaking. When I get this way I begin to lash out at my kids and I don't want to do that today! Any words of wisdom would be appreciated!
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