So its been 5 months since my STBX walked out on me to go live with her rehab boyfriend. I should be divorced in weeks and am buying the hoiuse from her. She has no money,no job, no license and is living the addict life. Since the 1st, she has tried on occasion to get me to waiver on my resolve to let her back in my life. Tell you something, IT AINT HAPPENING. Why? becuase to let her back in would rob me of my serenity and it took too much to actually get serenity and to feel happiness. Last night she informed me that I was correct when i told her she was making a big mistake and that she would give anything to be home. i simply said the discussion was not healthy for either of us and coming home was not possible becuase it would not work, She got pissed and said goodby. These events sadden me but do not impact my resolve. In your experience, how long will this go on for before she stops?
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