Okay so I met this guy, he was perfect, treated me great, successful, happy everything. Well we started arguing and he started to use and I found out. Well he told me and was crying and crying he was so mad at himself. He didn't want to do, I let his family know. He would do really well and go to all the meeting and come home crying because he messed up and he couldn't understand why. He has never stole from me or lied that I know of. I had no idea that he was even doing this when we started dating. Well finally we got in a fight and I left, I couldn't deal with it anymore, he was up and down over and over and I think he was clean then. Well I left him, moved everything out and wouldn't talk to him at all. He checked himself into rehab, not calling me to get me back just cause he knew he needed help. He has written me a letter and it was the sweetest letter saying things will change and he is so happy to be there and he is so sorry and I was great to him and blah blah. Anyways he seems like a different person and I still love him. I don't want a life back and forth with drugs and addiction. He hasn't had a addiction for that long maybe a year, and he hasn't lost everything and his family or ex girlfriends never knew. He told me cause he felt he had to. I just don't know what to do. We were engaged. He never stole for me or anything like that, shit he gave me money all the time, he is very successful. I am scared of getting abck with him because I don't want to go back and forth through this for the rest of my life. He is in rehab now and has another two weeks, technically he could check himself out but he said he would stay the thirty days cause he feels like he needs to. He seems so happy and changed, but can people really go to rehab and continue meetings and stay sober. I don't want to go back and forth through this over and over. How do you know if someone really will stay sober and wants to?
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