my best friend is a sex addict. i love her very much but sometimes find it hard to deal with her problem. it just bothers me that she has no respect for herself and i try to understand that she has a problem. she always calls herself a whore and i hate that. shes dating a guy right now but i found out the other day she is making arrangements to meet a former F*&K buddy for a day. i dont understand this. a few weeks ago she landed in the back of a car and gave a complete stranger a blow job. she tells me all this and i just dont know how to react. i dont necessarily condone this behavior but she is my best friend and i love her. i try not to judge but its hard. i keep telling myself she has a problem. she keeps things from me as well but i usually find out about them because she tells others what she is doing. i feel in a way she is lying but i know deep down she might just be afraid of what i might think. she always tell me she is a bad influence on me. i tell her she isnt. now if i followed in her footsteps then yes i would say she was a bad influence. i am her our outlet. i am her closest friends and confidants. i dont want to discourage not to talk to me. what do i do ? do i need to draw some boundaries? can anyone offer and advice on how to handle?
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