Talked to husband today and of course it ended in a big freakin argument. He brought up all that Ive done wrong and of course attacked my character.It was so aweful and yet again I ended up in tears.Ive worked so hard on learning boundaries and he talked about all the self help books I read and thinks I shouldn't be reading them so much. I don't understand why Im a peopel pleaser (that Im learning not to be).everyone tells me "Im too nice". Why do I do this ? Why can't I be ruthless?Why can't I play mind games and beat him at his own game? I don't understand why this is so hard for me.I havn't caved,he asked to go get dinner and I told him I havn't even thought of that yet and he needed to get the clothes he needs and leave. It wasn't the NO I wasnt to say,but it is close.Im still working on this.he is supposed to come spend a few hours with daughter tomorrow.I hope I can be strong..
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