Last night was crazy.. I went to get my son at my stbx place and found out that his father was drunk while watching him!!!! I told him to get a lawyer and he just continued to verbally abuse me and scream profanity. All the while my child is in the room... who is by the way only 16 months old. He threw a bowl of cherries at me and kept unplugging the phone when i was trying to dial out to call someone to come and get us. He threatened to quite his job and he'll be gone in a month. I dont really care.. I was scared and overwhelmed. He can no longer take care of his son on his weekends.. he's too sick. He needs help. I am filing for custody.. i have the papers here.. but now what i just take them to the court and see what happens they give me a date and we go to court. This process is so confusing and overwhelming. He called me this morning and appologized for his behavior and said he was going to go to AA he knows what he has to do..I said do what you have to do. This is taxing and ovewhelming WHAT DID you guys do to tackle this and not let your life get sucked out from under you??? I am going to an alanon meeting tonight i hope it helps.
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