Hi I'm new here My husband kept is addictions from me very well. He would blame weird stuff he was doing on add. But He doesn't have to drink all the time or smoke pot all the time but he will do a disappearing act for a few hrs or a few days maybe once a month. He admitted to me a couple of weeks ago while on one of his binges that he has been lying that he hasn't stopped smoking pot which I already knew I'm not stupid. When He isn't doing that once a month or every couple of months He is fine but I feel like this is tearing apart are family he says he can stop on his own he doesn't need help. I don't know whether he is coming home sometimes I don't know if money is going to come up missing. I can't live like this anymore I told him this was the last time He would put me and the kids through this I just don't know what to do. but he will not come back into this house if he choses that over us. Am i right or I just don't know what to do
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