Hi Everybody out there!! I'm new at this so here goes. I'm here because I have a very dear and close friend that needs help. This IS a friend that I met online about 9 months ago. He is married--and they have PLENTY of issues there. I watched him go deeper and deeper into the chatting over these months--not realizing until recent weeks that this had been an ongoing problem for about 10 years now. His wife has caught him now 4 times. Just last week, his wife got a phone call that he had been doing this again, and that he had actually been looking to meet up with women--and everybody can guess what for on that one. I've tried over all of these months to tell him to be open and honest with his wife about it all--but he was too afraid that his marriage would be over if he did. I know that this is an addiction for him. He is seeking help from their minister at this time, and they are seeking out counseling, pretty much for everything, marriage, sexual, addictions. I've encouraged this all along as his friend. His wife, at this point wants to cut him off completely from EVERYBODY. Hey folks, help me on this one--need some advice from all you good people. I was just always taught that you don't turn your back on your friends--that you stick with them in good times and bad. Both of us have discussed this, and he doesn't want that to happen--but he wants to make things better and right with his wife, stop the lies and make it work. Any and all advice would be much appreciated. Thanks everybody!!!
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