My DH is an alcoholic with some underlying issues. He has battled with it for years but, as of the last year it seems to be at its worst. He has emptied our bank account a few times while out at a bar and get so trashed he doesnt remember the next day. It is effecting everything we all do it. It affects him and you can see he knows that he has a problem but wont do anything about it and he just slides further and further down at times. It is effecting my kids in the sense that they are watching his ups and downs and they dont really have any idea what is going on and I dont want them to because when he is sober he is such an amazing father. But it is affecting me in the sense that it is taking a toll my self esteem by the things that he says to me when he has been drinking, it affects my work because there are days that I cant go in because I have to stay behind and clean up the damage that has been done the day or night before. It is taking a dramatic toll on our marriage. I am at a loss I have exhausted all resources available to me and have no true support system. I don't know what to do any more.
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